Jul 11
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Fear and Punishment or Love Like NDEs Show?
I have had several people ask me to talk more about my NDE recently, fear and punishment, reincarnation, and what it felt like to be “over there.”
I don’t say it as often as I would like because it is misunderstood when I do but I live to get back there. Words can’t describe the peace and tranquility I felt but I also knew there were things I was sent here to do that I hadn’t done. So I wanted to come back for that reason only.
But the last thing on my mind was fear and punishment!
All that was important was learning how to be more loving by eliminating fear.
And that is why I work so diligently at getting to a place where no one can push my buttons. I’m a million times better and it’s actually pretty hard to rile me and impossible to keep me there but I still have work to do before I ALWAYS feel inner peace. But that is my lifetime goal-eliminate thoughts of fear and punishment I had been taught to believe in and exemplify the Love I experienced the day I left my body in the ditch in my mangled car.
There is no higher vibration and nothing more powerful than Love. If we act out of Love in everything we do, how can we go wrong? But that’s NOT saying we aren’t accountable by any means. Just the opposite.
I believe what goes around comes around and we are accountable for our actions and the vibrations of energy they create. There’s no such thing as a free lunch where you can create pain through your actions and then simply ask to be forgiven and go on being the same way.
Who you are inside, the part of you that vibrates a resonance that causes you to act in ways that are hurtful to yourself or others, must change. That is what I refer to as “fear energy” and it must shift to the energies that fall into the “Love” category.
We must be able to truly Love one another before we can stay in that place I think of as “heaven.”
Vibrating out the energy of anger and fear is a far stretch from the vibration of Love I experienced during my NDE. I strive to vibrate that energy here on earth and I think that is why we are here-to bring heaven to earth.
But contrary to the comments I get way too often from people who think is easy for “people like me,” it isn’t easy for me. But it IS important enough to me. So I put the effort in that it requires and I think that is what makes the difference.
It was painful to watch my life review. I was surrounded by the vibration of Unconditional Love, clearly knowing who and what I was- a spiritual being have a physical experience, and doing it so poorly. I was wasting something that seemed precious from over there. But still, it wasn’t about fear and punishment.
I really WANTED to do better!
But just like an addict who looks in the mirror and determines to do better because of what is seen and understood at that moment of truth, my problems weren’t solved just because I wanted to change. Whether it is someone with addictions or someone like me who at the time had inner pain and a feeling of being totally at the mercy of my circumstances, we all still have to follow through with the commitment determined at that moment of truth and insight.
Like most people, I have been and still am a work in progress. Because of the many years of work I have done on myself and the coaching and energy work training I have taken and use on myself every day, I have reached “critical mass” and find it pretty easy to be the one in charge of my emotions and how I react to things going on in my life.
But it wasn’t always like that. There was a time when I sure didn’t find it easy to stay “in Love” instead of fear-anger, confusion, depression, hopelessness and all the emotions that fall in the fear category as opposed to Love. But my experience taught me that fear and punishment mode is the opposite of Love mode.
So I made every effort to be “in Love.”
The effort paid off and now it’s exciting to remember where I was and see how far I’ve come. And once I got more control over my emotions and stopped reacting to life, I could use my energy in a different way to design an improved life.
After piecing things together to make sense of things, I discovered a way to work with my brain and energy that was very powerful. I became convinced that we are meant to use mind power and intention to create a better world for everyone. And the basis of that is creating “Love energy” that can be focused with a vision to bring about tangible changes.
My life is full of stories with plenty of examples that demonstrate the power we have to create change by using our mind power and energy on purpose and with purpose.
I work with my formula I call Triangle For Success every morning first thing to set the day and every night as I go to sleep to wake up with ideas and insight whenever I want to see change happening in my life. Emotions and the feelings experienced because of them are truly a language that speaks a message to the field of energy that we are all a part of. Positive heartfelt emotions, self talk or the story that is told in your head and the vision that plays on your mental screen influences what shows up as life.
I work with this process and live it every day because results come from focusing mental power and energy in a way that allows The Universe to deliver what you have in mind.
And fear energy, as I clearly saw during my NDE, has no place in the process. So it makes sense to me that we are given opportunities to eliminate fear and punishment by becoming the loving beings we are intended to be. And I think we are given the opportunity to do that one place or another, until we get it right. So I remain open to all possibilities.